Join us for the November 2011 Smart Stage Mom Workshop!


The Smart Stage Mom Workshop is an exclusive opportunity to work in a small group setting with Casting Director Aaron Jacobs, Owner of AJ Casting and Reel Extras, the largest Casting Service in the North West United States.

This is for serious minded Parents and Young Performers only. There is a lot to learn and dedication to getting more work is required.  Space is limited to 10 Adult and Young performer teams.



When:  November 19th, 2011

Where:  Seattle Center House

Time:  10am – 4pm (Q&A Session to Follow)

Cost:  $250.00 Per Parent and Child team (Normally $350.00!)

The workshop includes: The Actor QuickStart DVD System (a $125.00 value), so you can review what you will learn at any time!

This workshop has been created to help you and your young performer overcome what is holding you back from getting seen by Casting Directors, getting your first Agent (or scoring a better one), creating resumes and headshots that stand out (for the right reasons!), helping you steer clear of scams, give you insider tips and shortcuts that will save you time and money.

In 1 day you will learn more than you thought possible:

Show Business Terms for Your First Acting Job

Have you had an embarrassing incident with showbiz lingo yet?  If you haven’t, count yourself lucky. Whether it’s mistaking a “fixed cycle” for a mountain bike or assuming the “best boy” is the director’s son- misunderstanding showbiz lingo is easy to do whether you’re new or experienced. For people new to the business, the crazy number of acronyms thrown around can seem absolutely overwhelming.  It’s not! The Tools of the Trade bonus material included with the Smart Stage Mom DVD contains hundreds of industry terms and definitions, but for today- let’s focus on some big ones you might hear at your first audition.  We’re going to assume you know what “Action!” means:

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How to Raise a Child Actor

Jodie Foster Turned Out OK

So being a stage mom is a little glamorous, right? Even if you’re doing a good job as a mom and not to living through your child it’s totally natural to enjoy sharing with your friends and family when your child has booked a commercial or landed the role of Annie.  This is what it is all about! These are the successes we work so hard for!

That said, what does it take to make sure your child grows up to be a little more like Jodie Foster than Lindsey Lohan?

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Seattle Kids Scammed in “Free” Audition Ruse

For weeks the airwaves in Seattle have been full of commercials encouraging parents to bring their kids out for free auditions.  The commercials make it sound like your child is getting the opportunity to try out in front of industry leaders, but as usual- there’s a catch.

According to KOMO News 4 the event is produced by a company called “The” who also do business under the names “The Event” and “New York Studio Inc.” By their own admission they are “not a talent agency or casting company.”

Here’s how it works, you show up with your child and “audtition” for this company’s representatives- who tell you that “The kids got potential!” and “You’re gonna be a stah, kid!”  They then offer you a take it or leave it “Chance of a lifetime” to go to ANOTHER event in Orlando, Florida and audition for actual casting directors and modeling agents. Continue reading

Audition Etiquette for Stage Moms

You Stage Mom’s work tirelessly getting your kids ready for auditions. Running them to acting and dance classes, dressing them to look the part, and running lines.  We KNOW how hard you work. That said, don’t get so lost in all the hubbub over getting your kid ready to wow the casting director that you forget that you are auditioning as well.  Here are some tips to help both of you ace child’s audition:

Be Professional

Being professional means showing up on time, which of course means 15 minutes early. It means both you and your child are looking and feeling your best, butterflies aside.  Things can happen on the way traffic, flat tires, getting lost- the list of events that can derail you is endless. Budget extra time.

Be Prepared

Have everything ready for the audition in advance. Run lines with your child before you get to the casting directors office. Bring your smart phone and your calendar (to make sure you don’t have conflicts for callbacks or shoot dates).  Have extra copies of your child’s resume and headshots.  Auditions often run late, so bring a discreet snack for your child to snack on if you end up sitting around for a long time.

Dress the Part

Your child should be dressed appropriately for the role they are playing.  If you have questions about how that works check out Dressing The Part over at  That said, remember YOU are playing a role as well. That is the role of the kind of parent who can manage their child, doesn’t get in the way, and isn’t a distraction or an impediment.

It’s Not About You Honey

Bring a book. Bring your knitting. Download that Angry Birds App for your phone, sister. Don’t sit there drilling lines with your kid until the second they walk into the room and then pounce on them the second they walk out.  Don’t badger the receptionist for information that will give your kid an edge.  Try to remember that this is about your kid following their own dream and doing something fun for them, and they are going to relax and audition better if you can be calm  and relaxed.  “The best advice I can give a parent is to treat acting just like all the other after school activities your child may have.” says Geralyn Flood, a casting director in Los Angeles.  “They should come prepared and ready, just like they would for their piano or guitar lesson or recital, and they should be doing it because they get pleasure from performing.” Just pretend you’re at soccer practice.

Make no mistake, your child might be the one auditioning for the role, but YOU are on stage as well.  Remember that.